Friday, December 11, 2009
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
I have a really good friend that is "talking" to my best guy friend. They dated two years ago, when she was in 8th grade and he was in 7th. She and I are now in 10th grade, and he is in ninth. Just recently, they found out they still had feelings for each other after being broken up for over two years. Well, they are both two of my closest friends. I would even say they are my best friends. The boy's mom LOVES me, because I am always watching out for her son. He is a grade younger than me, but half a year older, but I still watch him as if he were my brother. I am always with their family, and our families are best friends. Well my other friend, the girl, says that the boy's mom does not like her and this is what I told her: You are not dating his mom. You are dating him. She said, "Well duh, but it'd be a lot better if she liked me." And this is the next thing I told her. "Don't worry about the parents. My mom doesn't like Justin (who is my ex) but we still hang out anyway. I mean, they can't realy stop me." She had this to say: "But wouldn't you feel better if they liked him?" I said, "Well yeah, but if you like someone, no one else should matter." As long as you are happy, no one else is going to care. If you are dating someone that your friend or parents don't like, they will eventually get over it, because all they want is for you to be happy. And besides, it's not like you're going to marry this person or something. And even if you do, then your friends and family will warm up to the person by then. Happiness is really all that matters in relationships. Those people who really matter, don't mind. Just as long as you're happy. :)
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
"The most valuable thing I have learned in life is regret nothing."
Why regret something than once made us happy? It just wouldn't make any sense at all. If you dated someone and had the best months, even years, of your life, why would you regret it? It made you happy. Never regret anything.
You aren't gonna know everything all at one time. You learn more as life goes on, just like a dance.
"No one can give you better advice than yourself"
When you ask someone for advice, they're basically telling you what to do and how to do something. Why would you want that? Listen to your heart. Don't let anyone tell you how to live your life. It's yours.
Life goes on.
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
I really like this one because I know it's the truth. God doesn't always give us what we want, but He gives us what we need. We need people to help us out in life, and to hurt us. Other people in our lives make us into who we are.
"A second chance doesn't mean anything if you don't learn from the first." There's usually always a second chance. But a second chance isn't just to see if it works again. You have to change things during that second chance. There's a reason the first time didn't work out, so in order for the second chance to work out, you must learn from the first.
"Laugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can't change" This is from a Southern Belle t shirt, and it is one that I live off of. Laughing is necessary for life, so why not laugh whenever possible? Apologize no matter what. Even if it wasn't entirely your fault. Apologizing makes you a better person. Always apologize. Letting go of what you know you can't change is key to life. If you hold onto something for too long, it gets tired of you and doesn't want you. Let go of what you know you can never change. Life goes on.
"Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you. You just have to find the ones worth suffering for." Almost every person you encounter in life is going to hurt you in some way. The ones that are worth keeping are the ones worth suffering for. People that break your heart are not worth suffering. They hurt you once, they'll hurt you again.
"You have to take the good from the bad, smile when you're sad. Love what you have and always remember what you had. Always forgive, but never forget. Learn from mistakes but don't regret. People do changes and things go wrong, but always remember that life goes on." Where ever there is something bad, it means there was once something good that went bad. Take the good from it. Smiling when you're sad shows you're strong. Always love what you have. You don't have to like it, but you gotta love it. Always remember what you had. God let you have a memory for a reason. Use it. People change, but that's life. Things do wrong but they were once right, so make them right again. The number one thing we have to remember about life, is that it goes on.
Monday, November 2, 2009
"There's nothing wrong with change if it's in the right direction."
"Nobody can go back and start a new begining, but anyone can start today and make a new ending."
"Sometimes good things fall apart so that better things can fall together."
"The key to change is to let go of fear."
"Things don't change, people do."
"We change, wether we like it or not."
"Change is the only constant."